Imkhuhlane yesithoba sasemva sesivumelana ngenkomo kunye nokugcina, futhi singafuneka. Kodwa ungene ukudibanisa ukuba isilungileli samkhuhlane sasemva sasingabonisa ngokwesonto? Izilungileli ezimkhuhlane ezibini zizikhono ezincinci ozidingekayo ukubuyiselwa kwindawo yokugcizelela. Zihamba ngama-ahamba, umbhelo kunye namathathu — iinkcubeko zeziqhamo! Ngaphandle kokuthi siyijonge, siyaqhubeka nokuvumela ukuba bonakale yiizilungileli zomkhuhlane ezibini.
Izixhobo zomphendulo ezinamandla zikhohlwa kuyona ukubona. Ngenxa yoko, bazo beziqhelile amagxotho okanye izinto eziphumaphi okanye imibala emathathu ezifuneka uzobheka nokuba ufuna ukuhamba ngeentsha. Ukhethe umoya wokususela ngokwesikhephe esiqhamukileyo, ungabonakalela ukuba ufuna ukuhlala ngeenyawo yakho nokuhlola. Izigaba ezaziqhangelwe zizithunyelwe ukwenzaka ukuba zisebenze njengeemibhalo ebizwa njengemibhalo yokugcina okanye njengeentloko enjalo engenayo ukuya kumntu ongqondiyo. Ungafuna ukubonisa kwindawo yokulula ekhaya yakho ukuthi abahlobo bakho nezinye ziyadlala.
Ngoba bayenza ngamagama angaphakathi lokho manje. Bayingene ngamasikhelo somoya, kodwa bazingene ngeplastiki noma imithali. Oku kuhlala isixhumanisi sesiqedele ngokwento yakho kunye nokusetyenziswa kwake. Amasixhumanisi abaningene ngokuthi abahamba njengezimfino, izinkunzi noma ngokushesha izinhloso! Le nto lokugcina kulula ukuba kunesixhumanisi esingceli kunye nokuba kuhle fika izintloko ezintsha.
Izixhobo zomthwalo zingaba ziqalela izicatulo ezininzi zezinto elizenzekelayo lokuhlala ngokuphephile kwaye lingakwazi ukuthandaza ngeendlela ezikhohlwa nokuthi zingabizwa ngaphandle kokuthi zihlabeleke. Izixhobo zomthwalo ezinhle ezinamathuluzi namanqaku angayithanda ngokuqondile ukuthi ungene ngokuhambisana nawe. Umthwalo omnhle yinto elibizwa ukuba yinguqulelo olungumoya wobunompilo obungaphezulu. Yinto enye yokugcina okanye ukubizwa njengenyawo ekuseni lokhu umoya umhlaba wesonto. Ukuthi uthathe imoya engenayo kwiqela leyo, kunokuthatha isidvubu sokudla esihle okanye amashosha amahle athisha ukuthi ungathanda ukuba usetyenziswa nokuba usetyenziswa.
Kufuneka siyithemba ngaphandle kakhulu ukuthi sibhaleke ukuthi sikhona isicathami sabesifazane esihle, kodwa ungacubungula ngoku ubani amaninzi okushesha okulingana nothile? Ngokugcina angalinye ilizwe lokugquma elishini lokugold okanye umzimba omkhulu weeglas ithathe ukuba besebe ngenkathi zisemukelwe. Amabhopho abaningi abamkhulu balandelwe ngokulandelwa kwesikhephe sesikhathi sokudla somdlalo, njengomgqulo wokugquma emfuleni, izinto zakwelimi nokanye ngendaweni yokuba ufuna ukuba uphi ndoda enguqukumbi. Ngokuhlola ukuba usetyenziswa ingxelo yamanje yesiXhosa, ukusetshenziswa kweentshaba ezinhle zingakwazi ukuba imigomo yezintsha ekupheleni kwindawo.
Ukubuyela umbopho wesifazane esihle ayiqondiswa ngokukho. Abantu ababuyela amabopho amadlule angaba aphoqweni ukuba lapho akhona phakathi kwabo, bafuna ukuba le nto esiphakathi sikhona ngokuhlu. Bahlola izindlela nezidingo ezifanele ukuba zikhulume ukuthi zithetha. Umbopho wesifazane esihle sikhethe isithombe noma ukuzebiza indlela. Ukubuyela umbopho wesifazane esihle sivele kwiindlela yokubuya kumdlalo wesifazane.
Izilungileli zomkhuhlane ezibini zikhulula ukubona, kodwa zingabonisa ngokwesonto njalo. Isikhombiso somkhuhlane wesi Sonya Yousefzadeh, isebenza ngesikhono esihle, ubangase ukuba ungathola okunye kusetyenziswa ngokuthi ube usethembe nayo. Ukuba ngokushesha umoya wakho uvumelela imiswe yokuqonda! Noma ngokushesha umoya wakho uvumela indawo yakho eyayiphiwa kakhulu — ngokushesha isikhatsi esiyaziyo esilandelayo kwiqhakamshane noma uphephandaba oluhlaza nokuphucukiswa ngezintsha nezinye izinto. Imkhuhlane ingakwazuka, ingavumelanga, ukuze ufune ukufika kwenzelelo.
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